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We had a parent/teacher review. Both children are about a year ahead on maths (Sophia literally scored 18/20 for the maths test a year up from her), doing really well on reading, and badly on writing.

This is not a surprise to either me or Jane. Dyslexia runs in my family (struggling with spelling, not reading) - and the school have noted Sophia's backwards letters/numbers, and inability to remember word complications. The school indicated that she's on a pathway to a dyslexia diagnosis.

Gideon isn't old enough to know whether he's trending that way. More likely that his sharing of my aphantasia means he doesn't respond well to their story cues. I had no interest in writing stories at his age either. His teacher will try different approaches and see if any of them click with him. He's perfectly imaginative, and enjoys fantasy, board games, and memorising minutiae about online nonsense to tell me all about on the way home, so I suspect there are approaches that will work for him.

In any case, their teachers are delighted with them and the amount of effort they both put in, and so we are too.

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Nov. 3rd, 2026 01:42 am
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How they get carried down to breakfast
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Nov. 1st, 2026 01:54 pm
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Meet the newest member of the family. 6kg. Very placid. The children are delighted. Possibly called Cotton, but we need to get to know him before we're sure.
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Oct. 31st, 2026 02:50 pm
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Happy Halloween from Alice and The Devil!
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Patterns are everywhere (bricks and fences and paving stones and numbers. Followed by much predicting of next house numbers)
What if I was your car?
Wouldn't it be cool if I made everyone live forever if I was their car and they sat in me?
What if you had superpowers and were a god?
Did you know The Flash can't drink too much coffee or he would vibrate and then he would faint
(Miscellaneous discussions of Thanos, Loki, and other Marvel things he has clearly seen ridiculous nonsense about on YouTube, and how it would have been better if Gideon had been in charge)
A discussion of wishes, and how he would trick a genie into giving him unlimited wishes.
It's really good that we walked rather than taking the bus, because the bus is taking forever and hasn't passed us yet.
He wishes he lived in Australia because then he'd be able to hunt kangaroos and eat their meat
That a dog we met was friendly and if he survives into the future(??) he would love to have a dog. And an Iron Man suit.
How he literally saw a video about a man who was infected by a demon and everyone had to stand still whether they walked past.
Intensive discussion of the state of roadworks in our street.
Annoyance that the wind had moved our bins.
More warnings about people with red eyes and not moving if you see one.
And then he helped put the bin out for tomorrow's collection and headed in to the house to "turn on every single light".

Windy relief

Oct. 25th, 2026 07:57 am
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After several years of me internally worrying about the weird groaning sounds coming from above whenever it's windy, Jane pointed out how much the aerial on the house opposite was wobbling in the gusts and I realised it wasn't a loose beam about to explode in to our bedroom.

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I was watching a video about why Britain beat China to the industrial revolution, and at one point there was a weird pronunciation - where "Suspect" (a person on trial) was used instead of "Suspect" (have a suspicion about).  And then the quality of the text went somewhat downhill, near the end, as the video circled repeatedly around its own point, its grammar worsening as it went along.

And it's not that the first 2/3 of the video wasn't pretty well written, illustrated, etc.  It's that if someone is paying this little attention to how it's written that they don't even copy-edit it into a decent shape and make sure that it's pronounced properly, how am I supposed to rely on it being related to reality?

I've come around to the idea that people who struggle with English might use it as a helping hand, to help them be taken more seriously, but when something is being portrayed as factual and education then I expect the quality to match the levels of seriousness with which it's been produced.  And when there are obvious signs that your text has been largely produced by something which understands the structure of text more than it understands the meaning of it, it will definitely be losing my attention.

Life with two kids: Laaaaaaaaate!

Oct. 23rd, 2026 05:25 pm
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Not me forgetting that pick-up is an hour earlier on a Friday* and arriving at 5:04 apologising profusely.

(I've never done pick-up on a Friday, because it's one of my office days. And when I looked out the front door at 4:30 to see what the rain was like Jane thought the noise was me leaving to get them)

*This is, of course, bloody annoying, and the kind of things that makes it hard for people** to have both full time jobs and children
**Mostly women
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